Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Lavinia Crawford with the following comment:
I would be most grateful if you would send an image of this monument. I believe she is my great grandmother. I am not able to help with your project as I live overseas, unless there is something you can think of that could be done from a great distance. It saddens me that not very many of the requests you receive are acknowledged. Please know that your dedication to helping others find their ancestors is deeply appreciated. Yours sincerely Sheila (Crawford) Edlund