Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Joseph Lanham with the following comment:
Hoping that this is joseph for genealogy book know he or they are family members just need for genealogy searching dearly for father of Joseph born 1564 or near date St Edmunds, Wortham, Suffolk County, England praying to continue my fathers side worked on this for over 30 years and much secretcy for some strange reason just found mothers side I guess it will take another 30 years to finish hers. Greatly appreaciate you taking this time out of your busy schedule to locate and send. Sincerely Yours truely, Letha