Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of James Selsby with the following comment:
This is marvelous Charles - my son in laws family. Maybe I should tell you a little story. My son in law used to laugh as my daughter as she is 'Suffolk' and his family were Scottish (so he said).....so I offered to research his family, which led me to Laxfield - it turned out he is even more Suffolk than my daughter, much to his 'horror'. I'll also be requesting that of Mary Selsby, which I found when all visited the burial ground, but chose the wrong day to photograph it with the weather being so bright and sunny,