Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Henrietta Shrubb with the following comment:
Charles Peyto Shrubb was christened in Boldre, Hampshire in 1838, but birth does not appear in FreeBMD. This family was rather sketchily documented in one of my predecessor's research into the Lane (of the Ryelands, Herefs) Pedigree in 1934 (and obviously she has been dead for decades, so I can't ask her:), and I'm trying to resolve a number of inconsistencies. Any evidence is potentially helpful.