Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Charles Napier Kelly with the following comment:
My 5X great aunt, Elizabeth Kelly (nee Oakeley) was the first wife of Sir Charles James Napier. They didn't have any children together but Elizabeth had 3 children by her first husband, John-Francis Kelly of Kelley and Holsworthy in Devon. One of these children was a boy, Henry Kelly. I would be interested to know whethere there are any connections on your tree with these on mine.