Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Andrew Zerub Stoddart with the following comment:
I am helping my cousin with research to find his great grandmother - we found her this year and know that this is her gravestone.She married Andrew (merchant draper) in 1889 in South Africa and returned to UK at a later date. Further details for both are here https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Lynn-4181 and https://www.wikitree.com/wiki/Stoddart-857