Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of William Lumley with the following comment:
I believe this is the gravestone of a family member and I am documenting my family tree and history. This would really help me confirm who married William as I believe this may be on the gravestone and I have spent 2 years trying to find this information and living in Canada this is not easy. I know the feeling of helping people and getting nothing in return as many have taken my information from an extensive family tree without a thanks or anything in return. Anyway thank you in advance. Loretta