Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Thomas Kirkby with the following comment:
Thomas Kirkby was an ancester on my mother's side and I am making a study of my family history. I love adding illustrations to my file. I live in Somerset but hope one day soon I can visit Pately Bridge where many generations lived. I am so grateful for the work you are doing. (I had typed that last sentence before I read your comments below!)