Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Sophia Nicholson with the following comment:
Sophia Nicholson was my 3rd great grand aunt. I am always extremely grateful of the help of services like this to get to see images of graves which are hundreds of miles from me. I have previously offered to do local graveyard look ups for people but I too have found people to be somewhat rude and ungrateful. Many thanks in advance.