Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Mary Downing with the following comment:
I am researching the Downing family of Southminster, Essex, and I know they originated from somewhere in Suffolk near Saxmundham. So would like a closer look at this grave please as they may be related. I have a few photos of graves in Southminster etc which I can add to your database if you like. Many thanks.