Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Emma Leaver with the following comment:
She was born Emma Cramp (baptized 26th Dec 1841 in Bodiam, Sussex) and is my 3rd cousin, 4 x removed! She married Levi in Peasmarsh in 1866 altho in all the censuses he is down as Walter. In 1871 he is a shipwright (presumably the reason they end up in Grimsby) but is a market gardener by 1901. You've also solved a little mystery as I couldn't find her death in the indexes. Turns out her surname is recorded as Lever.